#psychology

2 posts

• Finding what was lost: the red pill of tango.

  January 5, 2024

  One of the blog posts that I personally am still searching for is the last post of the series “The tango matrix”, where the author spills secrets of “what really is happening at the milonga, and once you know that, you can never go back”. The series was written by Dave Donatiu (can’t find a […]

• Talking past each other: the individual, the collective, and the rules in between

  December 23, 2020

  A December 2020 essay on why pandemic arguments rarely landed: one phrase, two levels. The individual-vs-collective framing, the escalation spiral, and the 'kind adults' alternative.